Savannah GA Child Custody Lawyer

Providing for what is in the best interest of a child is often in the eye of the beholder. Unfortunately, in many cases there are parents who are just not fit to have full time or even a shared custody role in the lives of their children. When a custody dispute becomes especially messy it is important to keep remember the big picture. Fathers who are fighting for their right to have custody of their children must be thorough and diligent. Dads need to be aware of the steps they must follow to present a good strong case.

A sad fact is that the more evidence you have against the mother of your child, the merrier. When there are genuine issues the other parent may seem to be handling you evidence on a silver platter. More evidence makes for a stronger case.
Gathering evidence in a custody case requires more than just committing everything to memory. It is important to keep records. Do not be afraid to take photos, sometimes a visual display is more touching and able to convey more than a written narrative. Fathers should be sure to accentuate the positive things they are doing as a care provider. Yes, a good picture can also show what the other parent may be lacking when it comes to caring for the kids.

An attorney can be a huge ally during a custody dispute. Fathers need to first find someone that has a good solid reputation. Be sure to meet with an attorney to get a feel for the type of person they are as a personality conflict will not be an asset when things are stressful. An attorney will help to guide you through the steps that are necessary when gathering evidence. Rules of evidence can be difficult to fully understand.

A detailed journal should be kept. Some basic things to include in a journal are the date, what occurred, and who was involved. Kids, usually the younger ones, are not afraid to tell one parent about the other. Keep track, in as much detail as possible, things that are concerning. Visits should also be carefully logged in the journal. Verify that the entry is dated. Write down the pick up and drop off times as well as any events that take place during the exchange. Follow up with the kids and document all that they tell you happened while they were with the other parent. Again, include the positive things you are doing to be a good parent! Fathers who follow this simple advice will look much more prepared and serious when they get to court proceedings.

Fathers sometimes must take the gloves off, so to speak, when fighting for what is in the best interest of their children. It can be painful to have to work with another parent who is neglectful or abusive. By being concise and consistent in the gathering of evidence, dads are strengthening their case for custody. Remember that two easy steps to take are pictures and a detailed journal. Simplicity can go a long way!

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